How to Find a Lost Diamond

How to find a lost diamond.


On our 25th anniversary I looked down at my wedding rings and discovered that I’d lost my center diamond solitaire.   If you’ve ever had this experience you know the sickening feeling that immediately grips your stomach.  Read on to learn how to find a lost diamond.

It’s similar to learning that someone you love passed away, and it’s followed by panic and an intense desire and need to start searching high and low for what had become and extension of your hand–a part of you. But where do you even begin?  It’s so tiny. It could be anywhere.     And is it even possible to find it?

Yes.  You can.   So first, take a deep breath and blow it out slowly.   Then take these steps.

  1. Grab a notebook and write down everything you’ve done in the past day.  Why just the past day?  Because believe it or not you look at that diamond often.   You more than likely lost it within a few hours of when you discovered it missing.   So write down every. single. detail. of what you’ve done.    Showered? Started a load of laundry?  Put leftover pizza in the oven?   Worked out?   Write it all down.  Then begin tracing your steps in reverse order.
  2. Starting where you were last begin by thinking about where you may have snagged the prongs.   Look at the prongs.  Is there fuzz of any sort?   If there is can you tell where it came from?   Is it a certain color?  Common places to snag a prong:How to Find a Missing Diamond
  3. MOST COMMONLY, the laundry (check in the laundry piles, inside baskets, washing machine, dryer, and in the lint traps)
    inside oven mitts
    inside pockets
    blankets/sheets (or under the bed if it’s fallen out of the blankets)
    inside socks or other clothing like children’s feet pajamas
    in the couch
    Knitter or crafter?  Check in your yarn or supplies.
    in the car.  Look both in the seating areas and in the cargo area.
    inside bags.  check those bags before you throw them away!
    in the soil if you’ve gardened (See below for a suggested method for this type of search)
  4. Next look all around upper (non-floor) areas where you’ve been.   Look in the oven.  Look in the refrigerator.   Look in every little crevice.  You’d be surprised where a diamond can fall and/or bounce into.  I read one instance where the lost diamond was found in a bag of lunch meat in the fridge!
  5. Once you’ve checked the common snag areas and upper areas like counter tops, begin looking on the floor.  First with your naked eyes.  Don’t see it? Maybe you’ll hear it.  Grab any metal rod type of thing.  I used the handle from my Swiffer Sweeper…removed the head first.   Lay it flat on the floor then sweep it back and forth on the floor/carpet.  Anything hard on the floor will make a clinking noise on the metal.
  6. Next grab a flashlight and try shining it across the floor and into any crevices near the baseboards or heaters, etc.   The light might catch the facets and sparkle out from your diamond’s hiding place.
  7. If those search methods didn’t work, grab the vacuum, take out the bag.  Put in a new bag. TURN OFF THE BEATER BAR mechanism so that you don’t damage your diamond! and vacuum thoroughly.     After you’ve vacuumed all areas in all rooms where the diamond might be you will cut open that bag and sift through the contents very carefully.  Alternatively you can also put a nylon stocking on the end of the hose to try to catch the diamond there, but if you have dust bunnies under and around the furniture, that’s more of a challenge than it sounds!
  8. Next check sink traps and shower drains.
  9. Have you looked in your computer keyboard?
  10. How to Find a Missing DiamondIf you’ve lost it outside, first, avoid walking in the suspected areas as much as possible.   Once you step on it, you could push it into the soil.   Instead work from the outside in, in grid fashion.   Check one square foot at a time.   If it’s grass, grab scissors and cut the grass as short as possible  as you search.  This will make it easier to see the diamond, and it’ll also help you know where you’ve already searched.
  11. If you’ve lost it in garden soil, sift it.   One bucket-full at a time.  Through a screen.
  12. If you’ve lost it in the pool, plan a “Search and Rescue” Party.   Offer margaritas to your friends who come to help you search the pool.   Under water flashlights like they use in scuba diving are helpful if you can find one.
  13. Check inside the hot tub.
  14. As awful as this sounds, check the dog poop.  They like to eat things like that.

If you suspect you lost it in public, notify the management of any public place you visited.   And post a lost & found ad.   Did you know that in many areas anyone who finds it has a responsibility to attempt to find the owner or otherwise face criminal charges if they are found to possess the diamond later?  It’s true.  So post an ad.  Post on Facebook.  If it’s a diamond that’s been in your family for a long time, you might even get the news to feature your story.

If all this proves fruitless, do not lose hope.   I found mine in a place I never thought to look–in a basket of laundry I’d washed, dried, and folded a few days BEFORE I lost my diamond.  I had completely forgotten that I’d stuck my hand into the bottom of that basket to pull a sports bra out for my workout.  I found it days after my search ended.  I emptied the basket by then and the diamond was sitting at the bottom.  I only found it when I moved the basket and heard what sounded like a pebble rolling around the bottom of it.There are many stories of people who have discovered their diamond in the least expected places many days or even weeks later.   So don’t lose hope.

After I found it, I learned a lot from my jeweler about why so many people lose diamonds in the first place.   Having this information is helpful in avoiding a loss in the future.   He also gave me pointers for the event that I ever do lose it and can’t find it.

  •      Very often rings are sold with prongs that are far too thin in the first place.  The ring manufacturer sometimes uses the least amount of gold possible in order to keep the price down.    If you’ve acquired a new diamond, you should have it inspected and appraised at a reputable jeweler as soon as possible to check for problems like this.
  •      The prongs of our rings are almost always made of soft metals like gold.    These metals wear down a bit every day that we wear them.   Over time they get thinner and thinner and eventually are able to bend and snap easily.
  •      Excessive polishing speeds up wear and tear
  •      If you’ve had your ring sized more than one size up or down, the original angle of the prongs is altered creating more of a gap around the diamond.
  •      Vibration cleaners or Steam cleaners with high-speed jets can jar diamonds loose.

To avoid losing a diamond in the first place, plan to stop in at your jeweler not less than every six months for them to inspect and clean your ring.  They can fix loose prongs or replace worn prongs before you have a problem.     Between visits to your jeweler, look at your ring often.   If it’s been getting snagged on things a lot more than usual, there’s a problem that you may not be able to see with the naked eye.  Bring it in.    If you hear it jiggling, there’s a problem.  Bring it in.  Most small repairs can be done for free or up to $50.   If you ever need the entire head of your ring replaced (like I did), that’s relatively inexpensive too considering they are replacing gold or platinum in most cases.  Mine was $160. including labor.

REMOVE your rings when you shower or take part in any heavy activity.  Keep them in a designated ring keeper (not loose on the counter where they can get swept up with the trash.)

And finally, check into insurance.    Often times the jeweler you purchased the ring from will offer free lifetime insurance as long as you bring the ring in for regular check ups.  You can also add an insurance rider to your  homeowners insurance.  (But be aware of the particulars.  Some only cover complete loss of the entire ring, not just a stone.)   Most insurance riders can be obtained for $100-$400 dollars.

Good luck!  Feel free to post your lost and found stories here or share on our Facebook page!

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  1. My Grandmother lost the stone out of her engagement ring just after her first child was born in 1944 whilst gardening. She lost hope of ever finding it after extensive searching and my Grandfather bought her a replacement ring. She then found it nearly 50 years later in 1993 when they were getting their home ready to sell – we think it was buried and worked its way to the surface – absolutely amazing! My Nana kept her ring (although missing the diamond!) all that time and had it re-set – she has now passed away, but her ring has an amazing history in our family 🙂

  2. I found one of my mom’s diamonds lying on the floor in the kitchen door way. First I thought it was one my sisters stick on earrings. Then I noticed it was an actual stone. An other time my mom lost the big diamond solitaire of her engagement ring and couldn’t find it anywhere. She even went back to all the stores she had visited. When she got back she sat in the car and cried. Her tears made the light shimmer somewhat and all of the sudden she noticed the diamond was laying by the driver door on the floor of her car. She was so relieved.

  3. Both my and my late Mother’s engagement rings just ‘disappeared’ from my home. I don’t have a clue how they disappeared or who could have taken them. Sentimentally as well as value wise I am very sad. I pray I’ll find them.

  4. Yesterday morning I lost my platinum setting and diamond! I was devastated! But after waking up in the middle of the night, I searched on the Internet on how to find my lost diamond. I stumbled onto this article. It gave me hope. So I went creeping in the middle of the night with my cell phone flash light retracing my steps. And I found it!! In the basement on the ground by the washer and dryer!!! Just now I found my diamond!! I’m so excited, I can’t believe it!!! Thank you!! I’m going to be so tired for work today do you have any tricks for that? 🙂

  5. I am so upset .. I lost my whole diamond cross pendent. It somehow broke off the chain and I have done everything from retracing my steps to flashlights at night everything 🙁 the cross pendent was something my mother had given me when I was 15 wore it everyday for 11 years and now its gone…. And every day I look still … Hoping to find it… I believe its in my yard.. Cause I didn’t go many places that day and I would always hold it by habit every day at least twice a day… So it was within a few hours that I had lost it any suggestions??? Its a part of me missing…

    • Katie- I hope you see this (well, 1st of all, I do hope you’ve found your pendant, but if you haven’t yet-I have a suggestion!). Not sure where you are located, but people who metal detect as a hobby LOVE when they get permission to do a private property. I think standard protocol is to first get permission and then agree to the terms of the search if anything is found- half/half, etc., however I guarantee if you reached out to a local (Facebook?) community of metal detectors (yes, they get serious about this! You’ll easily be able to find a forum and people in your area)- they would LOVE to search a private property yard and then if (WHEN!) they find your pendant, absolutely make sure you have that in your search terms- that 100% of that and it’s value is returned to you if found! I Hope this helps!

  6. PS- My Grandpa just passed away and we buried him on 4/13 and then my grandmother noticed her diamond solitaire stone missing on 4/15; so I’ve come on here to get tips because I am going over there to FIND IT! (My grandpa was on oxygen so O2 people are coming tomorrow to take back all the machines and equipment and I want to be sure to scour the house before they take all that stuff out- in case it gets moved accidentally or- hate to say it- on purpose =`/ Thank you for making the time to post this, Ive printed a copy and am heading over there later today!

  7. This morning I looked down, why I do not know and noticed my big diamond missing from my engagement ring. I immediately started sobbing and have stopped just a few times since. The pit in my stomach is killing me. I doubt I will find my diamond as we were on our hands and knees with flash lights throughout the house. It just sucks as we don’t have the money to replace or buy a new set. I am just so heartbroken!!

  8. A few years ago, I got so busy getting ready for a garage sale that I didn’t notice until the day of the sale that I hadn’t seen my ring for a couple of days. I thought, surely, it had to be either in my bathroom drawer or on my ring holder on my nightstand. So I went inside to check those places, but it wasn’t there. Needless to say I was so distraught that I had my husband man the garage sale while I retraced my steps and scoured my home for the missing ring. It wasn’t until the next day, that I decided to look into the mouth of a humidifier for it. I thought it was so silly to think it, as I had looked past that humidifier the previous day thinking there was no way or no reason for it to be there. But I was so desperate I thought to myself it wouldn’t hurt. Lo and behold, it was sitting on the little plastic tray/screen right inside the mouth of the humidifier! My 3 year old son loved to just wander through my bedroom picking up things here and there. He must have taken my ring and dropped it into the mouth of the humidifier! I couldn’t believe it, but I was so thankful to have found it!

  9. I lost the entire head of my engagement ring that had a carat in it. I too was sobbing and felt sick. I didn’t notice it until I was at work typing and went to turn my ring that it was gone. I couldn’t wait to go home and search. I remembered on my way home that I have a new puppy who bit the head but it was still in place. She must have loosened it. I wrote down everything I did within 24 hrs. I called the restaurant I was in. We had a company picnic outside and I put all the food away. I went through all the food. I searched outside. Tore my bedroom apart. Looked in the couch I was sitting in at the time she bit it. Checked the bedroom closet- in shoes and pushing each piece of clothing where I grabbed the clothes I wore the day before. This morning, I had my son take a picture of the wedding ring that was in my wedding album and then with the head missing and I got the appraisal out to call the insurance company when I got to work. Just as I was about to leave for work I got a text. A gentleman at work found it outside in the parking lot where the picnic took place!!! I couldn’t believe it! I too am going to be exhausted at work today as I couldn’t sleep trying to think of other places to look. Totally worth it though. Thank you for this posting. It gave me hope and ideas as to what to do.

  10. I feel horrible I have lost the diamond my fiance proposed to me with which was his grandmother’s I think it was in the yard where I was cleaning tree limbs. I have searched and searched if everyone who reads this would say a prayer it would be very appreciated.

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